The researcher said that all men remained normal and wanted to have healthy relations with women. Their fantasies were fantasies. If anything, something in a film may give them an idea to try out but if this turned out to be unacceptable to their partner, they would drop the idea. All of them said they did not want their partner to be a "porno star".
This study was funded by the
Interdisciplinary Research Center on Family Violence and Violence Against Women.
Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction at Indiana University
Why People Use Porn by Erick Janssen, Ph.D., Associate Scientist at the Kinsey Institute
We do know, however, that porn, even the more aggressive sort, does not invariably turn people into villains. It can be a substitute or proxy for "real" sex. But it also is a world of fantasy sex, a place where people can safely dream about things they would not want to have happen or do in real life (just as we may like movies that present us with worlds we would not want to live in). Research has shown that many men report having sexual fantasies that incorporate some element of coercion. And so do women. But in one's fantasy world, one is in control.
Dr. Marty Klein
Dr. Marty Klein is an American sex therapist, educator and public policy analyst. His goals are to educate the public and policymakers about sexuality, help people feel sexually adequate and powerful, and to support the healthy sexual expression and exploration of both women and men.
People who feel victimized by porn: Let's give them sympathy, not a Congressional hearing
by Marty Klein, Ph.D. - August 8, 2005
The plural of "anecdote" is not "data."
But people who believe that America is loaded with victims of porn have no data. All they have is anecdotes.
Pornography, like Brussels sprouts and plaid slacks, is something to be chosen (or not) and consumed (or not). It is also something to have opinions about. This is, after all, a free country. But public policy based on opinion rather than fact is bad public policy. And a vocal minority is demanding that their strong opinions about porn be enshrined in law.
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The so-called victims of porn trot out each new rapist or unfaithful husband as "proof" of the damage pornography causes. They point to rapists with porn in their pockets, and husbands making love to their computers instead of their wives. As a psychologist, I can verify that there are tens of thousands of such rapists and husbands.
A compelling argument against pornography? Not at all. Everyone agrees that tens of millions of Americans consume porn. That's more people than watch CSI, or go to pro basketball games, or own an iPod. When you drive down your street tonight, every fourth or fifth house you pass has someone in it who enjoyed porn last month. The overwhelming majority of them don't rape strangers or emotionally abandon their wives.
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To properly evaluate the role of porn in criminal or abusive behavior, we would have to look at the porn behavior of non-criminals and non-abusers. Groups that drive anti-porn hysteria have never done that. They don't want to know about the porn habits of law-abiding, loving, productive citizens.
The argument that "this sex criminal was found with a cache of pornography--his victims are victims of porn" is simply false. Every sex criminal in America started with milk. Virtually all drive cars. Neither milk nor cars make people sex criminals, and neither does porn. There has never been a validated scientific study showing that adults who use porn are more likely to engage in antisocial behavior than adults who don't use porn.
So, is there a problem?
In my blog
Cindy Gallop: Make Love Not Porn I show Ms. Gallop's speech at TED 2009 and her introduction of her web site Make Love Not Porn. Having run into men whose sole sexual education seemed to have been hard core pornography, she decided to create a web site to educate people about the fantasy and the real.
Obviously if anybody's sole source of sexual information is a pornographic movie which is admittedly a fantasy than yes, there is a problem. But is the problem the pornography itself? Why is there no sex education at home? Why is there no sex education at school? Did anybody tell Johnny that when Sylvester Stallone kills 43 men in the Rambo movie that it's not real? Did anybody tell Johnny that sex in a movie is not necessarily real?
In my blog
Pornography: Statistics Laundering, I discuss how the misinterpretation of the facts or the distortion of the statistics can prevent us from properly assessing the nature of a problem and developing effective and proportionate solutions.
The New York Magazine
The Porn Myth by Naomi Wolf - Oct 20/2003
Ms. Wolf argues that porn desensitises men to reality. Porn raises their expectations to a point that reality is no longer sufficient. Unfortunately, her proof consists of anecdotes of her talks with individual people. I think the following comment to her article better sums up the reality.
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Personally, I think this has more to do with the kind of person you are rather than whether or not you watch porn. If you are the type of person who expects life to spring from the pages of a novel or a movie screen, than real life and the people in it are never going to be enough for you. If on the other hand you relish your human existence, then porn can be exactly what it is, interesting musings on the performance of sex.
I watch porn with my boyfriend all of the time, and when we do it enhances, rather than harms our sex life.
Conclusion
"I do not believe that this research demonstrates that pornography causes rape. . . .In general the scientific evidence clearly indicates that if one is concerned with the effects of media on rape, the problem lies in the prevalence of violence in the media, not on sex in the media."
Murray A. Straus, Professor of Sociology and Co-Director
Family Research Laboratory, University of New Hampshire
- creator of the
Conflict Tactics Scale (CTS) a widely-used method of identifying intimate partners maltreatment, with a version for the identifying of child maltreatment.
Rape is not about sex per se, it is about domination; it is about power. Did Johnny get that from watching porn? The majority of porn is non violent. Did Johnny get it elsewhere? From his parents? From TV?
The average child will watch 8,000 murders on TV before finishing elementary school. By age eighteen, the average American has seen 200,000 acts of violence on TV, including 40,000 murders.
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Norman Herr, Professor of Science Education, California State University
Long before the Internet, we had dangerous people in society. So, did the bad behaviour come from the use of pornography, or did the bad behaviour come from a violent past?
However, if pornography is the sole sex education, I would see a problem in the same way I would see any violent film as being an instructional video on social interactions. The formative years of any of us are the most malleable and are we collectively ensuring that those years are providing all children with the best education possible? While porn may have some instructional attributes, should anybody be first learning about sex from a pornographic film? If they are then the parents have failed, the education system has failed and our society has failed.
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References
The Kinsey Survey for PBS: Frontline: American Porn - 2002
This investigative television show by PBS included a survey done by Kinsey consisting of 10,453 respondents: 8,454 men and 1,792 women
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/porn/etc/surveyres.html
my blog:
Pornography: a series