Another birthday is around the corner. How do you intend to bring in this birthday?
As quietly as possible… With the family and a bit of solitude.
You share an extraordinary rapport with your fans. How do you see your equation with your admirers and well-wishers at this point of time?
They have all been extremely kind generous and tolerant towards me. I wonder often what it is that keeps them with me even after so many years. It surprises me to find their love and affection through the ages and I can only thank the Almighty for this. They have all now become an integral part of my extended family. A family to whom I am indebted.
Amitji, how do you cope with the constant attention and the ceaseless demand on your time?
There are two ways to look at something like this. One, that you are still wanted. Which quite surprises me often. And two, if they still want me, it becomes imperative that I concede to their demands. It is uncomfortable for me to refuse an invitation, and so when it comes my way, I find time for it.
One question that everyone wants to ask you, Amitji, is, where and how do you generate that unflagging enthusiasm for your work, for fans and for every aspect of your life?
Work, if you have accepted that it is work, needs the kind of enthusiasm that it is connected with. It needs complete attention and the desire to be able to give it your best. Otherwise why accept it. Work keeps the mind occupied, attentive, and enthused – essential ingredients I would presume for any creative occupation. Fans give you so much love and affection. It would be rude and uncalled for if I were not to reciprocate them.
The elders shall have to accept that they have to give way to the new and the young. There shall come a time in all our lives when we the elders shall not be able to walk along or think as speedily or differently as do the young. The sooner we accept that the better. Having said that, there are certain principles and norms that the elders set for us, and it becomes mandatory, at least for me and my immediate family, to respect that. I shall always respect aspects of my father and mother's upbringing, their values and their teachings. I would imagine and expect that my next generation think the same way about certain basics that we gave them. But both Jaya and I are fairly liberal in our thoughts. We would like to strike a balance between the traditional and the freedom of the youth in their modern thought process. We are happy with this understanding, and our children and grandchildren have so far not disappointed us. We hope that Navya-Naveli, Agastya and Aaradhya shall play roles in their lives that shall be in keeping with what we expect from them.
How different is your bonding with Aaraadhya as compared with what you shared with Abhishek?
I cannot say just yet. She is too young at the moment and still trying to discover who is what and where, around the very busy and extensively-travelled life that she is leading. But in time to come as she grows, I would like to be as close to her as possible, become her confidant, her friend, her bodyguard. (Laughs)
There is a lot of talk and speculation about Aishwarya's return to acting. Considering Jayaji gave up superstardom for marriage and motherhood, what is your take on your daughter-in-law's return to acting?
There is a growing clamour to read your autobiography. Would you ever reconsider doing it?
Amitji, another fantastic season of KBC is upon us. Please share some of the most glorious moments from this season.
Ah! That would require a lot more space than what is available on this platform. But suffice to say that the experience each passing year and day is enthralling, educative and most exciting. The contestants are the main contributors to the program. It is their lives, their acumen, their performance that brings life to the show.
What are the film projects that you will begin during the coming year?
I have just started Bhootnath Returns, being directed by Nitesh Tiwari, with B.R.Films and T-Series as joint producers. Then hopefully by the beginning of the next year will start R. Balki's, Sujoy Ghosh's, Shoojit Sircar's and Vidhu Vinod Chopra's film. There are several others like Rumi Jaafrey, Anurag Kashyap, Abbas-Mastan, Umesh Shukla, Sudhir Mishra… And of course KBC by the middle of 2014 again .
Sudhir Mishra's Mehrunissa is about to start. Your thoughts on working with Rishi Kapoor all over again?
It has always been a joy working with him. We had some splendid moments during our earlier days, and we hope to be able to recreate those moments again.
Your message to your fans friends and well wishers this birthday?
Thank you for being with me for these past 45 years. I shall ever be indebted.