Andrew Dice Clay, 56, isn’t the vulgar misogynist that many people believe him to be. His other persona is Andrew Clay Silverstein, a nice Jewish boy with romantic tendencies. Through the years his love life has had all the ups and downs his career has had, and he wants to get it right. Clay fell hard for Valerie Vasquez at the Playboy mansion in 2009 and she became his third wife a year later. She was less than half his age. Clay’s career is now on the upswing and he doesn’t want to lose his young wife. He and Valerie decided that being married was not as exciting and fun as dating. Too much pressure. So they split up amicably and brought the romance back into their relationship. Modern thinking.