I always make sure to tell the men I know the feminism is good for them because women who identify as feminists are often far more comfortable with their sexuality than other women and for the many men, this is a good thing. I personally try and sneak the f-word into conversations with men I don’t know so that it isn’t such a big deal. I try not to be militant because I accept that that sort of behaviour is unattractive, no matter what the cause. Unfortunately for me, I feel very passionately about the things I believe in, so it is hard to not convey that passion. At the end of the day, I go after what I want and if a guy can’t cope, I’d rather find out on the first date than months down the road.